Are You SSS? Single, Secured Satisfied Part III
Avoid negative people.
Avoid being around people who want to dominate, manipulate you to become who you are not. People are out there probably married folks who think you don’t fit in or that they are better off because they are married and you aren’t, don’t let such negative people make you feel devalued. And for ladies, there are men who feel because you are single and searching, they can manipulate you to do and be who they want you to be if you want to get hooked up with them. Don’t let nobody silence your voice or treat you any less than you deserve to be treated.
Have a goal and be focused on what you want in life.
Dream of the rich and rewarding life you want to enjoy. Have a life plan. What’s your dream of your ideal man or woman so when they eventually come into your life, you will know. Who are you becoming in the process of waiting for your partner? Don’t lose yourself during this phase of being single. Focus on your growth. Read books that inspires you and would help you achieve your dreams. Above all, stay hopeful that your right partner will find you. Will you be whole when he/she finds you?